What to Do If a Loved One Is Arrested
Receiving that phone call — “I’ve been arrested” — is something no one wants to experience. It’s stressful, confusing, and emotionally overwhelming. But knowing what steps to take can make all the difference in helping your loved one return home quickly and safely.
Here’s a step-by-step guide on what to do if someone you care about is arrested.
Step 1: Stay Calm and Gather Information
First, try to remain calm. Your next actions will be more effective if you're thinking clearly. Get the following details from your loved one (or the jail, if you're unable to speak with them directly):
- Full legal name
- Date of birth
- Jail location (city/county)
- Booking number (if available)
- Charges filed
- Bail amount (if set)
The more information you have, the faster you can act.
Step 2: Contact a Bail Bondsman
If the bail is set and you can’t afford the full amount, call a licensed bail bondsman. A bondsman can help secure your loved one’s release for a fraction of the total bail — usually around 10%, which is a non-refundable fee.
Be prepared to provide the information you gathered, and ask questions about:
- The total cost of the bond
- Collateral requirements
- Payment plans (if needed)
- Estimated release time
Step 3: Pay the Premium and Sign the Paperwork
To move forward with the bond, you’ll need to:
- Pay the premium – This is typically 10% of the full bail.
- Provide collateral – If required, this could be a vehicle title, property deed, or other valuables.
- Sign as a co-signer – You’ll agree to be financially responsible if your loved one doesn’t show up to court.
Make sure you read and understand everything before signing
Step 4: Wait for Release
Once the paperwork is processed, the bail bondsman will post bail at the jail. Depending on the facility, release can take anywhere from 1 to 12 hours. Be patient, and stay in contact with the bondsman for updates.
Step 5: Help Your Loved One Stay on Track
Getting out of jail is only the beginning. Help your loved one understand the importance of:
- Attending all court dates
- Following any restrictions (e.g., no travel, no contact orders)
- Staying in touch with their attorney or public defender
- Notifying the bondsman of any changes
If they fail to appear in court, you — the co-signer — could be on the hook for the full bail amount, and your collateral could be at risk.
Final Thoughts
No one wants to be in this situation, but knowing what to do when a loved one is arrested can make a hard moment easier. At [Your Bail Company Name], we treat every client with dignity and compassion. Our team is available 24/7 to guide you through the bail process step by step.
